Parenting Without Borders

Parenting Without Borders

Surprising Lessons Parents Around the World Can Teach Us

Book - 2014
Average Rating:
Rate this:
An eye-opening guide to the world's best parenting strategies

Research reveals that American kids lag behind in academic achievement, happiness, and wellness. Christine Gross-Loh exposes culturally determined norms we have about "good parenting," and asks, Are there parenting strategies other countries are getting right that we are not? This book takes us across the globe and examines how parents successfully foster resilience, creativity, independence, and academic excellence in their children. Illuminating the surprising ways in which culture shapes our parenting practices, Gross-Loh offers objective, research-based insight such as: Co-sleeping may promote independence in kids. "Hoverparenting" can damage a child's resilience. Finnish children, who rank among the highest academic achievers, enjoy multiple recesses a day. Our obsession with self-esteem may limit a child's potential.
Publisher: New York : Avery, a member of Penguin Group (USA), 2014.
ISBN: 9781583335475
Characteristics: 308 pages ; 21 cm


From the critics

Community Activity


Add a Comment
ksoles Sep 17, 2013

Harvard-educated, first generation Korean-American Christine Gross-Log spent five years raising four kids in Japan. Her parenting research has taken her to France, Sweden, Italy and Finland where she has interviewed dozens of parents, teens and children. Her resulting new book, "Parenting Without Borders" provides an intriguing look at parenting paradigms across the globe.

In four parts, Gross-Loh patiently examines how different cultures teach their children to sleep, eat, play, build self-esteem and become responsible adults. Her grounded explications and engaging personal anecdotes make this a positive contribution to the genre of parenting books. Occasionally, the author's repetitive idealization of certain overseas child-rearing practices wears thin. But at least she acknowledges the challenges of adopting approaches like France’s two-hour multicourse school lunch, Japan’s emphasis on running family errands as a means of developing self-reliance or Finland’s individualized education plan for each student.

Offering practical strategies that American families could use immediately would strengthen the book; nevertheless, this strong survey persuasively shows that American parents, who experience more angst and judgment than those abroad, provide their children with plenty of individualism and tolerance but not enough empathy or autonomy.


Add Age Suitability

There are no ages for this title yet.


Add a Summary

There are no summaries for this title yet.


Add Notices

There are no notices for this title yet.


Add a Quote

There are no quotes for this title yet.

Explore Further

Browse by Call Number

Subject Headings


Find it at MCPL

To Top